Relationship Coaching for Men
Modern-day romance, relationships, and love can be exhilarating and satisfying, yet tumultuous and confounding at times. Many of us have a pattern in love that we repeat with different partners. In psychology, we view the romantic relationship as a place to heal one’s early childhood wounds, as it replicates our relationships with our parents, who were the original people to love us and care for us.
I also notice that many relationships have many unspoken rules, expectations, and taboos. How can a couple succeed when the basic foundation of honest and real communication is not present? This can be a birthplace for misunderstandings, which leads to defensiveness, hurt, vengeance, coldness and distance. When there is emotional distance, that is not a good sign, because when people feel ignored and unimportant to the other, naturally they will seek love and attention elsewhere. It may not always be from another love interest, but can also be channeled into work, addictions, exercise and food. In any case, it will be a place of escape and pleasure for that person.
So how can we become more masterful at relationships?
I provide love, dating and marriage coaching for the following clientele:
* Single or Post-Divorced Men
* Married Men and Dads looking for more insight and awareness into improving their personal relationships, whether it is with their spouse or children.
I also notice that many relationships have many unspoken rules, expectations, and taboos. How can a couple succeed when the basic foundation of honest and real communication is not present? This can be a birthplace for misunderstandings, which leads to defensiveness, hurt, vengeance, coldness and distance. When there is emotional distance, that is not a good sign, because when people feel ignored and unimportant to the other, naturally they will seek love and attention elsewhere. It may not always be from another love interest, but can also be channeled into work, addictions, exercise and food. In any case, it will be a place of escape and pleasure for that person.
So how can we become more masterful at relationships?
I provide love, dating and marriage coaching for the following clientele:
* Single or Post-Divorced Men
* Married Men and Dads looking for more insight and awareness into improving their personal relationships, whether it is with their spouse or children.
I come into this speciality of men’s love and life coaching with a natural talent and ability to hear and comprehend what may be elusive or unseen to men. My abilities are drawn from my personal romances, my clinical training and career in psychotherapy, my knowledge in Eastern and Western approaches to human sexuality, and having coached a diverse range of professional male clients.
So, for single and post-divorced men, I offer this:
Single men, are you baffled by women and their ways? Have you had women complain about you, but you have no idea about what they are talking about? Or do women just leave you and you are completely lost and confused as to why? You thought you put in your best effort, and did the best you can. You thought you were being kind, considerate, and present. You didnt even cheat on her! Or maybe you did. But regardless, why are women SO difficult? It’s like they are from a different planet!
Perhaps you’ve been on a few dating apps, and can’t seem to attract the right woman to you. Modern dating from social apps is fraught with many unspoken land mines and booby traps, for both parties. It seems impossible to trust anyone on these apps, and everyone has an angle. And no one wants to be rejected! I can also audit your dating profile online, give you honest feedback and and offer some better strategies.
So what I can teach you is foundational relationship skills, devoid of mind games and speaks straight to the heart, from the heart. Real women searching real relationships will pick up on YOU, because you are not like the rest of those guys out there. For one, working with me will teach you to know how to deal with women’s emotions and their style of communication. You will be able to be confidently express your needs and desires as well. You will be able to navigate different scenarios in public, as well as those in the bedroom.
As for Divorced single men, I offer you this:
Life has happened and your marriage has taken a different turn from the day you both wed in matrimony. Some time has passed and you are now ready to heal, be renewed and take charge of your love life and destiny. You feel ready to have a loving partner again and to grow in love again. The question is where do you start?
You might be stuck or hesitating, like so many post-divorce men are. The past may still have haunting memories, unprocessed feelings and unresolved situations, or perhaps you have some lingering anger, and even self-doubt about your ability to be in a trusting relationship. Or, women may still be a mystery to you, with they way they talk, their expectations, or what they like and want.
Your divorce and break up may have led you to some feelings of melancholy or depression, and now you assume a lackluster view of life, and it’s hard to find motivation out of that downward spiral.
You are older now and have to contend with certain body image issues that come with the territory, and the fear that you don’t look or perform like you did in your younger years. Trust me, women go through it too. Unfortunately, these are the self-limitations and doubts that stop and prevent both post-divorce men and women from seeking a satisfying and fulfilling relationship.
With my strong background in Psychotherapy, Parenting, Healthy Sexuality and Intimacy, I am here to support you in your Post-Divorce “Makeover” and to teach you how to understand women, as well as male-female and/or masculine/feminine dynamics. This is an exciting new chapter for you, a time to reinvent yourself and grow into the man and partner that you know you are meant to be... to be able to fully trust, confidently communicate, and openly love. Perhaps, you have a tendency to attract the wrong type of woman, and you don’t want that anymore! Or perhaps you want to be sexier in bed and to understand women better, in all ways.
I will teach, guide and support you to heal and evolve from the inside out to be a better man, father, lover, friend and partner. We will address all topics relevant for you to be best version of you possible, at home and in love.
My style is caring, compassionate, and nurturing, and my perspective is unique, psychological, and fair. I will always give you my honest feedback, and show you alternatives if you ever feel stumped.
My clients have made amazing progress in their lives, including finding their life partners, getting married and starting a family. It was not the goal when we first started, as they simply wanted to feel better, and heal their hearts. That is how healing works, because as you become more open, more loving, and more whole, you attract other people to you.
For Men Currently in a Relationship
We will review your goals, and assess your areas of needs, desires, and strengths. It takes much courage and guts to be willing to look at yourself with clarity, honesty and compassion. It is natural for your defenses and walls to come up, but as we process through it, you will grow stronger in your ability to communicate and be a great partner for your spouse and a positive male role model for your family.
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I offer a 1 month starter program, and a regular 3 month and 9 month program for more intense work.